i met & fell in love with Tom when he was 20. i was 17. last week we drove through bucket loads of rain into the city. it was time for us. time to stop. relax. enjoy a swim & being warm inside our room with a view. we were celebrating forty. just an age but also a life stage & it was worth enjoying & drinking bubbles while we remembered the past & looked to the future. i am so proud of all of his achievements & the fact that we are together in this life journey. melbourne city for this fortieth milestone. new york city for mine?!